Monday, May 03, 2004

Background Noise: Everwood, tail end
Last website visited: nytimes
Mood: tired.
Right now i want... that's a loaded question.

i listen well. i pay attention, i give attention, and i listen to not only the words being said, but the meaning conveyed. cool. go me.

i also form opinions. i have many of them. but i don't offer them until asked. (well, unless it has to do with work, or, say buying clothes, even then i am polite about it).

so if you and others speak for a long time, and i listen, and don't offer much in return except a few questions, it doesn't mean i'm blindly agreeing to what you're saying. in fact, chances are pretty good i disagree on some level or another.

so ask what i think. or ask questions like i ask you. be interested in my opinions and how i am perceiving the situation in question. ask, unless, you are actually afraid of my answer.

like i've said so many times before, if i'm not saying anything, something is wrong. or if, after presented with heavy subject matter, i switch subjects to something safe and funny and fluffy, something is wrong.

the only real question is, do you care enough to want to know what i'm actually thinking. or feeling.

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